Never destroy you better future with your bitter past

Be very careful of how you manage your unpleasant past experiences, it can easily discourage you, give you false image about yourself and make you bitter and negative.
You worked your heart out but you were never acknowledged and appreciated. Never stop doing what is right.
You took them as your sole source of peace and joy, but they always caused you pain. Learn to make yourself happy.
You completely leaned on them and they caused your fall. Learn to stand alone.
You trusted unreservedly and you were abused. Learn to trust cautiously.
You humbly followed and you were led astray. Learn to follow cautiously.
You were silent and people took you for granted. Learn to make productive use of silence.
*You might have a bitter but never allow it to destroy your better future, learn from it.*
*THANK you for always reading the DAILY PILL. Better and Greater things are in store for you*
GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU.

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It is mostly about you.

A clean cup cannot purify a polluted water.
The new year does not automatically make us new unless we renew our attitude and mentality.
Those who expect good things to happen to them rather than doing their best normally assign morality to days and years.
You have the power to;

Love or reject yourself.

Control or blindly follow your emotions.

Value or underrate yourself.

Utilize or waste your time and opportunities.

Make or mar your life.
Though you do not have control over certain situations, you still have the power to determined how to react to them.
You freely enjoy Divine providence and protection.
*You may have opportunities, resources and strength, but it is mostly about your choice and will to grab and utilize them.*
God be with you and have a dream fulfilling year.

No celebration lasts forever

The certain end of the day is night and the undoubted end of the night is day.
No celebration in life lasts forever, celebrate cautiously.

 

Things will surely come to their normal state after every event no matter how significant and interesting it might be.
*Never be carried away by the overwhelming joys of events.*
You will still live after great events in your life, so act, enjoy and spend reasonably and moderately.
Celebration without caution can easily destroy your peace joy, dignity and even destroy your life as well.
Life will still go on after celebration so do not use all your strength and resources for a single event in your life, do not destroy your dignifying identity and relationship with your God and others.
Remain in the love of God.

Carefully manage criticism

The only way to dodge criticism is to cease to exist. It is unusual to live without being criticised.
Any intention, utterance, action, inaction and silence qualifies to be criticized.
Do not be discouraged when people do not approve your good intentions, we, as human beings do not see and think the same way.
Do not be surprised when others oppose your views and actions, they are meant to move you to come out with the best.
Criticism is part of life but those who are focused in life could be distracted but not discouraged and destroyed by criticism.
Not all those who criticise you, hate and oppose you. Not all who hate and oppose you, criticise you.
Be careful of how you accept and manage criticism, it can make or mar your life.
God be with you.

Carefully manage criticism

The only way to dodge criticism is to cease to exist. It is unusual to live without being criticised.
Any intention, utterance, action, inaction and silence qualifies to be criticized.
Do not be discouraged when people do not approve your good intentions, we, as human beings do not see and think the same way.
Do not be surprised when others oppose your views and actions, they are meant to move you to come out with the best.
Criticism is part of life but those who are focused in life could be distracted but not discouraged and destroyed by criticism.
Not all those who criticise you, hate and oppose you. Not all who hate and oppose you, criticise you.
Be careful of how you accept and manage criticism, it can make or mar your life.
God be with you.

Will you still be you without that cover up?

Costumes, perfumes and make-ups normally decorate our ugly side to make us beautiful and attractive.
Many people are hiding behind pleasant realities to present nice and flawless but false image of themselves.  
Will you still keep your identity, dignity and credibility when that nice costumes that conceal your dark side are stripped off?
Will people still love to be with you when that perfumes of wealth, gift, status, fame and beauty, which draw others to yourself, are taken away?
Will you still be appear nice when that make-ups of your position, religion and beauty are washed away?
Will you still be who you are when your cover-ups are taken away?
Everybody has an unpleasant side but do not deliberately invest in  concealing or decorating your dark side, try to transform it.
God be with you always.

When human relationships are solely moved by needs..

When human relationships are completely motivated by  needs rather that love, people become relevant only when we need their assistance.
The way we treat those who have something to offer in our helplessness is totally different from those who seemingly have nothing to offer us.
Will you invest your resources at where you will not reap any dividend?
Will you unreservedly give to the one who cannot return your generosity?
Will you still keep in contact with the one you have already gotten what you needed from?
Many are not acknowledged, underrated, unappreciated and abandoned, not because they are worthless but because we do not get relevant benefit from them or we have gotten what we need from them.

 

*Value and love people for who they are, not for where they are and what they have.*
God bless and keep you

Prosperity without morality

In a society where  human worth is solely dependent on possessions rather than right conduct, morality becomes scarce and unattractive.
Where human dignity is completely hinged on what one has rather than what one does, wealth is pursued without considering its moral consequence.
When Divine providence and blessings are measured completely on material wealth, the goal of religion is limited to prosperity.
*Prosperity without morality is like a zeal without discipline and direction, it can be dangerous and destructive.*
Morality moves and guides one to make prudent pursuit and  productive use of possessions.
Let your aspirations and pursuits be moved by morality, not solely by prosperity.
God bless and keep you.

Criticise and correct with compassion.

Sometimes, we talk too much because we are not at post. Will we be better when we are given the mandate?
You are vehemently criticizing others because you are not in their shoes, would you have survived if you had found yourself in their shoes?
You are underrating others because they have failed, will you have been able to manage failure, if you had failed?
You are condemning others for their weakness, could you have kept your dignity, if you were in his or her state?
You will never know the true reality until you face it.
You will never fully understand until you are there.
Do not be too quick to judge others, try to understand to criticise and correct with love and compassion.

God bless you